It is always important to bear in mind that women are pretty delicate and can be pissed off really fast. In this regard, there are things that you must avoid saying to your wife or better still your girlfriend. This is actually the only way you will live a very friendly life and one which is crowned with happiness. It might interest you to know that minor things that can actually be considered mediocre are the core recipe to fights among two spouses. This means that you must hold your tongue and only say great things to your woman. Here are ten things that you must refrain from saying to your woman:
10. Take A Shower
One thing you must always remember is that women are created naturally clean. They always know the essence of remaining clean. In fact, it is a woman who should advocate for cleanliness and not the other way. For this reason, you must avoid telling your woman to take a shower. You can be assured that they indeed know when to take a shower. It is not that they have forgotten. It is just that they might have been in a lot of commitments which have hindered them to take a shower. The fact remains that they will eventually do what is right.
9. What’s For Dinner?
If you are smart enough, then you must know that women are the lords of the kitchen. It is therefore not in your place to ask on what they have for dinner. In fact, women always like surprising their men. In this regard, it will be more like an offence forcing them to reveal what they have prepared for dinner. The only noble thing you can do is to sit back and wait for what your woman has for you. Otherwise, asking for what she has for dinner is certainly something unpleasant.
8. Are You On Period?
What a disgusting question. Only foolish men have the guts of asking such a question to their women. It might interest you to know that the menstrual cycle among women is one of their worst experiences. In fact, if they were asked, they could get rid of the cycle and live just like men do. It is only that they are living in accordance with nature and they cannot change anything. It would be a very noble thing to silently know when she is undergoing the low days and don’t ask them about it.
7. Do You Yearn For Sex?
This is actually one of the worst things you can ever say to your woman. I mean, it is only natural that a woman needs sex at one point or the other. It is therefore common sense for you to know that they need sex. Why should you go ahead and ask for that yet everything is so obvious? It is the obligation of every smart man to know when their women needs sex and give it in the best way. It might interest you to know that women feel embarrassed when they ask for sex hence it is for men to set the spark.
6. Did You Have A Boyfriend Before I Married You?
The problem with most people in marriage is that they dwell so much on things that happened in the past. It is important to note that such things are a core recipe to destruction in homes hence must be avoided at all costs. A woman will certainly feel embarrassed when they are asked on their past relationship by their men. In fact, this will only drawback your family life and make things take the wrong course.
5. Your Size Does Not Matter
Did you know that a great number of women are suffering from low self-esteem due to their body sizes? This is usually so for women who are heavy weight and those who cannot slice down easily. In this regard, if your woman is too big, you must avoid repeating the fact to them over and over again. This is because they will gradually feel degraded and they might eventually lose interest in you. Of course your woman knows that size is not an issue to you and that is why they are married to you.
4. Take Care Of The Baby
It is important to note that a woman is connected to their babies far more than men do. In this regard, a woman can give anything in exchange for their babies. This simply implies that you do not have to tell a woman to take care of the baby. It is only logical that they will certainly take care of the baby irrespective of your advice or suggestions. Just take care of your business as a man and leave the baby under the care of their mothers.
3. Your Friend Is Pretty
Did you know that a lot of marriages have been broken when suggestive statements are made by husbands or wives? If you claim to be a smart man, then you must know the harm that comes forth with admiring your woman’s friend. It should strike your mind that women are smart enough and they will certainly know when you have ill motives. They will even speculate things when there is no need for alarm. In this regard, keep your complements to yourself and avoid spitting them out in front of your woman.
2. You Have Added Weight
Any smart man should know that a woman is a very great enemy of weight gain. It is for this reason that you must remain mum once you notice some changes in your woman’s body weight. It is only common sense that they will be depressed once they realize that their weight is adding up. Instead of telling it to their face, you can suggest some exercises to them.
1. What Have You Done Today?
This is one of the questions that working men love asking to their house wives. It is important to note that the question is completely offensive. The woman you have at home is certainly taking care of you. A simple meal is enough to show that they have done something for the day. Instead of scolding your woman, appreciate the little that they have done.